LOVE (2 of 2)

It happened while I was working on my financial study. I was processing my answer to the question I was on, when all of a sudden... the little bunny of thought decided to bound slightly off-track. But, as it did, my heavenly Lover gently showed me the answers I had been yearning for for months. He did it gently, just as any caring Father would... but, best of all, He showed me His heart.

I had really been struggling with God, as you all know after reading Part 1 of this two part blog... I just couldn't see how the loving God I had thought I had known for the last eighteen years was allowing things to happen, things that honestly seemed unjust and cruel. I doubted His actual love and commitment to mankind, including myself, and was wary of Him and everything having to do with Him. Church had lost it's appeal, reading the Bible got put off and put off until I never read it, and praying... ah, that wasn't gonna happen either. I was upset, why would I want to talk to the One who I thought was hurting me?
Through all of this pent-up emotion, He spoke to my heart and guided my thoughts.

I was answering a question about giving - writing down my small revelation that giving is actually making an investment into someone else's life. My thoughts started going back to how giving is actually a gift to the giver as well as the receiver; how one's relationship with God is strengthened by it, how it constantly keeps you in the proper attitude of stewardship and humility, and how it is an act of worship to God.
But God wanted to push that bunny a little further....

So it's a good thing there is such a thing as giving, isn't there?  He asked me gently. 

Well, yeah, sure. It's beneficial to both parties, so it's a good thing I guess.

Who are those to whom you give?

Well... just people with a need, I guess. 

Becky, you asked why I allow suffering - you do not understand how I can be loving, and allow my children to live in hard conditions, or in need. Don't you see? If there was no need, no suffering, there would be no reason for anyone to give to help another. That connection that you are able to have with Me would not exist.
Giving helps both you and the person to whom you are giving. It strengthens your relationship with Me by keeping you humble and strengthening our relationship. The person who receives your gift... their relationship with Me is strengthened because they are looking to Me to be their Provider. They have no alternative to trusting Me with their needs. When I use your gift to provide, you are both drawn into deeper relationship with Me.

But... why did you have to give all this to me?? *looking around room* I really don't need even half of it. Why do I have it so easy? 

It is just one way that I show My love to *you*. 

Oh, and so what is that supposed to mean about all those who are suffering right now???
I show them love my providing for them, and being their strength. I know what each person needs, and I give grace to them in every circumstance. If I knew they couldn't handle what they are dealing with, I would not have allowed it to happen. Right now though, where they are, and what they are suffering from is where they need to be. It is My way of calling out to them again, showing them how much I care - hoping that they will see My provision and finally turn to Me. Without the suffering, when would they ever see that they need Me? I do it all because I love, Becky. 

Take your situations, for example. You wanted so badly to go to school... remember how nothing worked out? You were angry at Me for not working things out, because you thought that you knew what was best. But I foreknew your health problems, I knew you needed to be home this fall. That is why I didn't allow it to work out right away. The desire in your heart is not bad - I put it there! It is just not that time yet... 

My health problems... You... You were trying to reach out to me, weren't you? You want to be my Rock when times get hard. You allowed it to happen, because You knew I couldn't handle it, and because it was another opportunity for me to reach back out to You! That's why you let it happen! You did it because you love me!!..... You..... love.... me. You do it all because you love me, don't you? Me, and everyone else? You use everything to reach out to us, and to show us Your love. You even use the sin and pain in the world, for goodness sakes! 

Yes. I just want you to know Me the way I know you. I created the world just to spend time with you... and that desire has never changed. I still want it, and I know it is what you need. 

 

Everyone, this is unconditional love, the one we all long for deep within.


Our God is good. He is faithful. And He IS sovereign. He is everything He claims to be, even if it does not
make sense at the beginning. He does everything out of love, as He has shown me. He even uses the suffering in this evil world to show us His faithfulness in provision, and the extent of our need for Him. And, best of all, He is standing there with arms wide open, just waiting for us to want Him more. He doesn't mind questions - even if they seem silly to us. He is always faithful to answer them, if you seek answers long enough. He won't let you down.

So, I guess my encouragement to you all today is just... well, if you don't understand something, or have questions.... stop at NOTHING to find the answers. He will answer you. And, most important of all, cling to the Father. There truly is no one like Him - He really is the only one who will never fail. When you are next to Him, you are safe, and are made complete.